A photo keyring

I visited my friend XiXi’s home country of China in 2010, and together we took silly photos in a photo booth in Nanjing. She was murdered by her boyfriend in 2016, and I wore the photos to her funeral as a necklace. Only eight people attended because her family wanted to stay away from the… Continue reading A photo keyring

A cap

My Grandad’s blue Hollister cap. When Grandma bought it for him, she told Grandad how much I would love it. I now have that cap hanging on my wardrobe door. Every now and then I pick it up just to hold it. The inside still smells of him and in my mind, I’m hugging my… Continue reading A cap

Two coat hangers

They are bright pink, plush and hideous, with empowering slogans emblazoned across them: “You’re gorgeous!”. They are too short and thick to hang anything properly. But every time I consider getting rid of them, I remember that they were a gift from my late Grandpa, who was stubborn, rude, loud and brilliant. This makes me… Continue reading Two coat hangers

Writing in a notebook

My dad was a barrister. He stood up in court and, in his stuttering speech, prosecuted people who contravened Customs and Excise laws. In a random notebook (of which my mum refused to throw away any, including old diaries from the 1930s – unwritten in) was one page that was written on in my dad’s… Continue reading Writing in a notebook

Teeny tiny spoons

They’re really small, and all the colour has gone, but they are perfect. I keep them in the box they came in, with the note saying you wanted them to come to me.

a pair of white Birkenstocks

Given to me before he passed in return for ruining my trainers at Glastonbury. I wore them for 6 months in Asia and both have been superglued back together but then he passed away. I can’t seem to get rid of them.

A shiny silver vase.

It was a Christmas present from my best friend, and while it isn’t something I would have chosen for myself, it has had a home wherever I have lived since. My friend was one of the shiniest, friendliest people I have ever known, so while she is no longer with me, the vase is an… Continue reading A shiny silver vase.